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Does Law give unfair advantage to women in divorce and custody cases ?

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To this question I found many answers-mainly by men. Here are some answers that I am posting here. I really do know what happens in such cases or how one feels after a divorce. But the answers really surprised me because as a woman I always believe women have soft hearts. I did not find any answers from women in this regard.

# 1. Law provides under section 498A of Indian Penal Code right to file complaint against husband and his family members and on the basis of such complaint the cognizance will be taken without bail by the accused and they may be arrested and prosecuted. This right is not available to men. It is this unfair and one-sided.

# 2. Women get undue and unfair advantage in divorce and custody... they get the alimony even if they are working... to me its "beggar's money" that they get.... yet they call it "equality" and women liberation... So, for them women liberation means getting undue and unfair advantage over men... how convenient!!!

# 3. Yes - they do very much - I am a divorcee myself - in my 8 years of failed marriage - my wife even at times threatened me to put me "behind bars" - made false accusations of Torture not only on me but on my parents also - all done with the tacit help of her mother finally forget all I spent on her in the last 8 years I had to shell a decent amount too as a one time alimony to free myself of her clutches.

# 4. Laws are too one sided they help the educated ladies of the country today I an not saying that men are angles but these laws do not help the rural and uneducated families were atrocities on women are rampant but I dare say among the educated these laws are 100% biased towards the lady and with section 498A and domestic violence act she can hold the boys family to ransom I have faced it so I know it.

# 5. Is it not an identical social problem like the reservation policy based on castes in India? In the latter case, castes who received low treatments ages ago are receiving undue advantages even after 6 decades. Same with women who were treated as unequal ages ago and suffered humiliations.

# 6. In either cases , it is high time that a rational thinking and right moves are made to gradually taper off the handicaps granted by law.

# 7. This is for the simple reason that both the Law and Men tend to consider Women as the weaker sex in our society. Why do we fail to forget to put them at par? Worse still, the law forgets that the symbol of justice is by itself a woman blinded balancing the scales of justice.

Can I have your comments on this issue please?


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You come up with articles of

You come up with articles of quality Uma. I don't know how best to comment on this one. Its rather tricky not knowing your laws. As you mention here it seems that this is a lop sided situation. Whats the purpose of a court and judgments then? In my opinion a fair trial should be given to both parties.

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Sylvia the benefit of the doubt

should go to both the parties.I have not mentioned any opinion in this from a woman so we need to know what they have to day too.

Thanks for the comment
Uma

Good article for debate.........

I am sorry for those men who have faced harassment from the law even without any fault.
But why were these laws made? who ever made these laws favouring women must have had a valid reason. Are women not burnt for dowry and other matters? But yes if a women takes undue advantage of these laws and put men in trouble then it is wrong. woe! unto those men and women who have infiriority complexe and hence dominate and oppress the other.
thank you Uma for this article. I really want to see other responses too.

Thanks for your comment Sapna

But it is women who take undue advantage and many a times men face such harrassment.Is is really sad that even educated women behave in this manner.

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Uma

That's the greatness of MEN Uma

The constitution was framed by a team of men.Men gave so much rights to women in marriages and divorces as you rightly pointed out.So understand the greatness of MEN.They are REALLY GREAT!

Men are Great Vijayanth but

Let us pray every marriage is successful and there are no such divorce cases.

God bless
Uma

What to say YES or NO

As a women they will yes to what you have written but as a man it like a big discussion. Any how you have written nicely.
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This discussion is not going to end

siddhi.Every body thinks he/she is right.So let there not be any divorce cases.It affects children too.

regards
Uma

never thought of it Uma

Thanks padmini

As you say, Marriages are made in heaven.Let us not break it.

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Uma