Love story … sad…

It is about a love story, which costs her life.

This girl is from a north Indian family, very beautiful and a good girl. Her looks gained a good reputation among the boys. Later she fell for a boy and they fell in love without their parent’s knowledge. Somehow, their parent’s found about it and scolded her, b’coz he was not up to their standard and that he was a south Indian

Parents tried to get her married to someone in their own community… the marriage got fixed, and girl was always locked in her room…she was guarded. He tried to get to her through her friends but it did not work the way he thought it would ….

One day when the parents went to purchase the wedding dress for her, they left her in her room, and they locked the main door. Something prompted her to do this… she set herself ablaze… and she locked the door inside, b’coz she did not want anyone to open the door to help her.

I don’t want to write the agonies in detail friends. The neighbour tried to break the door but she had 70 percent burn and she died immediately. She was only 18yrs old.

a) I do not understand one thing, what the parents gained from this.

They vacated the home after one month and her mother was not well after her daughter’s demise….

b) About that girl, if she has the guts to love someone then she should also have the guts to stand in her points.

c) Why can’t parents be more open about their views? At least they should have given her sometime to get back to normal. The immediate marriage fixation let her to this situation.

d) Why is it in our society love marriage is not acceptable?

e) parents have all the rights to get angry, but they also have to enquire about the whereabouts about their daughter’s love man and then decide … whether he is suitable for their daughter or not. (There are many gals and boys say that they are in love, but sorry to say this… at a certain age it is only physical attraction)

f) Even to say “love” needs age… age factor is very very important.

g) Money, caste and religion plays many roles in the love marriage.

h) Even parents can turn the love marriage into an arranged marriage if they accept it. It is not easy… I know. However, it creates a well healthy startup with them….

I) most of the love marriages fail, b’coz of lack of understanding and the lack of support from the family. But we can stop that if we arrange love marriage by parents approval. (Others have some other opinions… it is my opinion friends… no offence). Even nowadays-arranged marriages also fail … simple reason… expecting everything in a package…

P.S.- If I written anything-wrong… pl, forgive me friends…. I do not understand the younger generation and definitely do not understand the elders. Why the generation gap? We can treat them equally elder or younger… open talk could be the solution to fill the gaps…. Am I right or wrong friends?????

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