before you break up

what it feels like to be the person ending the relationship. How do you know when a relationship is all bad? How can you tell when to make up or break up? Here are some things to consider.

Is the relationship abusive? Are you wanting out of the relationship because it makes you feel bad?
Does your steady put you down all the time or say things that hammer away at your self esteem? If your gut tells you that the situation is unhealthy you should listen and get out.

Is the relationship destructive? Is the relationship ruining other parts of your life? Are you getting in to things like drugs and alcohol as a result of the relationship? If you feel that the situation is unhealthy you should listen and get out.

Do your parents object?
If your parents have concerns you really should listen to what they say before making any decisions. They can often see things you do not and help you sort through the confusion. Find out about their objections before discounting them as "parental controls."

Have you grown apart?
It happens! Even the most solid relationships can end over something as simple as growing up and growing apart. Do you have opposing goals for the future? Have you started hanging with different crowds? If so, time to call it quits.

Has trust been damaged?
Have they cheated on you, lied to you, or done something you do not approve of that has caused you to question the kind of person they are?

If you are experiencing all this, with your presnt relationships, maybe its time that you try to sort things out and think if you should continue being with the person or simply let go.

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